Saturday, October 30, 2010

"Relationships"

         People at our age think that calling someone their boyfriend or girlfriend automatically puts them in a position in which they can control them. At a young age we are trying to find ourselves and some of us have insecurities. that’s when problems begin with your significant other, the insecurities overcome them and they begin to bug you by questioning your actions. They want to know about everything you do and don’t trust you. You become annoyed by your girlfriend or boyfriend, and feel pressured. you’re not happy with them anymore, but don’t know how to get them out your life. that’s why its important to get to know people before you jump into a relationship.
           A relationship should be based on trust so both of you can be satisfied. You build trust when you have known each other for a while. You have to start off friends first and take it to the next level. Once you have done that, then you can try to be with the other person. You spend quality time together, but after a while your feelings might begin to fade away. You don’t want to hurt the other person, but you also know that staying with them isn’t making you happy. So you have to talk to the person and let them know how you feel. You cant stay in a relationship if you don’t feel a connection anymore. You tell them you really care about them and hold a special place in your heart for them. You can remain friends with them if you like, it all depends on how you feel.

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